we've all heard people say it doesn't matter whether you win or lose - it's how you play the game.  that's definitely true but at the same time, if given the choice to win or lose - winning is definitely the way to go. when i was a little girl my parents used to let me win.  whether it was the game "operation" - monopoly, or scrabble, they let me win.  i loved that !  it's fun to win.   i can still remember the feeling of having more points than everybody in scrabble.  my parents used to … [Read more...]